Autism as Metaphor

By POLLY MORRICE

SOME time ago, while trolling the Web, I came across a 30-year-old paper by William P. Sullivan, originally published in The Bulletin of the West Virginia Association of College English Teachers, that describes Melville’s Bartleby as ”a high-functioning autistic adult.” The notion struck me as far-fetched, but it certainly has had legs. A recent search using the words ”Bartleby” and ”autism” turned up, among other results, a 2004 Modern Language Association essay on the pale scrivener’s ”autistic presence” and a University of Iowa study guide that asks if Melville might have ”observed some of these attributes in himself.” Bartleby even appears on a site listing literary figures with autistic traits — along with Pippi Longstocking, Sherlock Holmes and several characters from ”Pride and Prejudice.”

What’s behind the impulse to unearth autism in the classics? In part, it may reflect our growing awareness of the disorder and its milder cousin, Asperger Syndrome. Critics seeking to diagnose literary icons may also be taking the current vogue for finding autism in dead geniuses — Michelangelo, Wittgenstein — to its logical conclusion. Given these trends, it’s not surprising that the wave of fascination with neurological quirks has also touched contemporary literature. Over the past decade or so, novelists and short-story writers in various markets — from genre authors to writers of young adult fiction to avant-garde experimentalists — have all created characters who could be labelled autistic.

It’s easy to see autism’s appeal to storytellers. Even mildly autistic people have problems communicating and understanding social behaviour; what’s more, these difficulties remain tantalizingly unexplained in an era when medical advances have demystified so many other ailments. We now know too much about, say, cholesterol, for a writer to portray heart disease as metaphorically as Ford Maddox Ford did almost a century ago in ”The Good Soldier.” But writers can still turn to autism when they’re looking for an ailment that can drive a plot and convey what English teachers once called ”layers of meaning.”

Not very long ago, those layers had a narrow range, from dark to darker. In ”M31: A Family Romance,” Stephen Wright’s 1988 portrait of a malevolently loony family, the youngest child, Zoe, slams her head against walls, yelps and echoes other people’s words. These symptoms almost caricature those of severe autism, but Zoe’s father, Dash, interprets them as the signals she uses to commune with extra-terrestrials, whom he considers his ancestors. It isn’t until the end of the book, after Zoe emits the ”scary cries of an undomesticated and certainly illegal beast,” that Dash starts to realize his ”jungle daughter” is damaged. Applying animal metaphors to disability seems jarring today, but it conforms to the professional belief current at the time: that autism was untreatable and tragic.

Sue Miller’s 1990 novel ”Family Pictures” also features an ”animal child,” or so David Eberhardt conceives of his autistic son, Randall, whose existence determines the choices his family makes over 35 years. Born in the late 1940′s, Randall stops speaking at age 4 and never learns any skills. But instead of trying to penetrate his silence, Miller uses him to explore two approaches to the problem of human suffering. Randall’s mother, Lainey, chooses religious acceptance; she loves her son unconditionally, despite realizing that ”nothing she did really helped . . . nothing changed, nothing developed.” In contrast, David, a psychiatrist, responds to Randall’s problems analytically, and at first he accepts the psychogenic conceit that rejecting mothers cause autism in their children, blaming Lainey for Randall’s illness.

Unsentimental and slyly ironic, Miller lets us know that David, who sees Randall as ”the son he would wish away if he had the power,” is in fact the rejecting parent. But Miller sustains at least one romantic notion, current when she wrote her novel- that autistic children are more beautiful than other children. Randall is ”undeniably the prettiest” of Lainey’s six children. As a teenager, he is ”still beautiful sometimes, in a nearly spiritual way,” but as a man, he has ”thickened and coarsened.” The idea of Randall as a failed Peter Pan is revealed most clearly at his death, when he’s described as ”free, in some sense, of human experience.” Compared to his rebellious and brilliant siblings, Randall has, in fact, always been barely human.

No recent character in contemporary fiction has been as intractably autistic as Randall. A possible explanation: during the 1990′s, we began receiving the hopeful news that symptoms of autism might range from marked to mild, and that early treatment can help the autistic child. Perhaps as a result, in the past decade the disorder has been dealt with most frequently in young adult fiction. The more reader-friendly autistic characters in novels like Nancy Werlin’s ”Are You Alone on Purpose?” or ”The Truth Out There,” by Celia Reese, sometimes speak fluently and have savant skills.

The best entry in this field is Gennifer Choldenko’s coming-of-age novel ”Al Capone Does My Shirts.” Its narrator, the 12-year-old Moose, faces the double challenge of living on Alcatraz Island in the 1930′s and babysitting for his older sister, Natalie, a math whiz whose behaviour would earn an autism diagnosis today. Choldenko has the teenage Natalie do something highly unusual among autistic literary characters: she learns pronouns and gets a crush on an inmate. In short, she develops.

The best-known fictional savant in the past few years is 15-year-old Christopher Boone, the prime-number-crunching narrator of Mark Haddon’s novel ”The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time.” Although Christopher sets out to discover who killed his neighbour’s poodle, the book is less a mystery than an exploration of how Christopher’s mind functions (”My memory is like a film”) and how his extreme detachment dismays his down-to-earth English family. It’s also the work of a writer who has done his research but usually resists clobbering us with it. At one point, for example, Haddon wryly slips in the theory-of-mind concept of autism, developed by British researchers in the 1980′s. Christopher recalls how, as a young child, he failed a test meant to measure his ability to infer other people’s thoughts. His teacher predicts he’ll always have trouble with such tasks, but Christopher now knows he can puzzle out these tests — just as clever autistic teenagers have done in real life, dislodging the theory’s supremacy.

For parents who, like me, have a child with some of Christopher’s traits, the least believable aspect of the novel isn’t his stupendous math talent but his utter remoteness from his family. Yet Christopher’s inability to connect with the people who adore him (he likes dogs better than their masters) is what the novel is all about. If he were to hug his dad, it might be a more authentic rendering of his form of autism, but as fiction it would strike a false note.

Which leads to a deeper question about autism in fiction. Should writers be held to account for putting a metaphorical spin on a disorder that affects so many real people? Or for describing it inaccurately? Susan Sontag rejected using illness as metaphor, but that’s a losing battle. Novelists have always turned misfortunes to their advantage. Forget the potential autism in ”Pride and Prejudice” and note instead how adeptly Austen packs Jane Bennet off to a sickroom with a bad cold so her sister Elizabeth can be brought together with the haughty Mr. Darcy.

In Dean Koontz’s thriller ”By the Light of the Moon,” an autistic savant named Shepherd teleports people from one place to another. Upon hearing someone utter a common expression of impatience, Shep responds, ”Almond, filbert, peanut, walnut, black walnut, beechnut. . . . ” When it comes to this sort of portrayal of autism, a simple ”nuts” would do just fine.

New York Times Published: July 31, 2005

The Weight of Love

Arun Shourie writes about bringing up his son Aditya, afflicted with cerebral palsy for many years now, in his new book, Does He know a mother’s heart? (HarperCollins). Adit’s pain and that of the author’s wife Anita, who suffers from Parkinson’s disease, leads him to ask: how can there be extreme suffering if God exists? Suffering, he says, refutes religion. Exclusive excerpts:

Your neighbours have a son. He is now thirty-five years old. Going by his age you would think of him as a young man, and, on meeting his mother or father, would ask, almost out of habit, ‘And what does the young man do?’ That expression, ‘young man’, doesn’t sit well as he is but a child. He cannot walk. Indeed, he cannot stand. He cannot use his right arm. He can see only to his left. His hearing is sharp, as is his memory. But he speaks only syllable by syllable…

The father shouts at him. He curses him: ‘You are the one who brought misery into our home… We knew no trouble till you came. Look at you — weak, dependent, drooling, good for nothing…’ Nor does the father stop at shouting at the child, at pouring abuse at him, at cursing the child. He beats him. He thrashes him black and blue… As others in the family try to save the child from the father’s rage, he leaps at them. Curses them, hits out at them.

What would you think about that damned father? Wouldn’t you report him to the police or some such authority that can lock him up? Wouldn’t you try everything you can to remove the child from the reach of the father?

But what if the father is The Father — the ‘T’ and ‘F’ capital, both words italicised? That is, what if the ‘father’ in question is ‘God’?

Why does the perspective of so many of us change at once? Suddenly, they exclaim, ‘There must be some reason God has done this.’ Suddenly, they shift the blame to that poor child: ‘Must have done something terrible in his previous life to deserve such hardship . . .’

And yet the child loves. He laughs. He is filled with joy at the littlest things — a tape of Talat Mahmood, lunch at a restaurant, the visit of an aunt or a cousin… What are we to conclude? That the cruelties rained upon him by his father have ‘built his character’? That they have instilled forbearance? Are we to infer, ‘See, while to us the father seems cruel, in fact he never inflicts more hardship on the son than the son can bear’?

Were we to say and infer as much, that would be not just obnoxious, it would be perverse. And yet those are the exact things that, as we shall see, a revered religious text says about God: He inflicts hardship upon us to build our character; He never imposes more hardship on a person than the latter can bear.

But that child is our son — Aditya, our life. Adit is thirty-five now. He cannot walk or stand. He can see only from the left side of his eyes. He cannot use his right arm or hand. He speaks syllable by syllable. Yet he laughs — you can hear his laughter three houses away. He enjoys going out to restaurants. He loves the songs of Talat Mahmood, Mohammed Rafi and Kishore Kumar. There are some songs, though, the moment they commence, we have to rush and turn off the tape — he is so moved by them that he starts sobbing. There are others which he identifies with himself:Tu aake mujhe pehchaan zaraa Main dil hoon ik armaan bharaa . . .. . .Muskaan lutaataa chal Tu deep jalaataa chal Khud bhi sambhal Auron ko bhi raah dikhlaa…

‘Mere baare mein,’ he declares with joy — and laughs even more as in our rendering the last line has been altered to ‘Papa ko bhi raah dikhlaa…’

He loves these singers and their songs. He loves even more the tapes that his grandparents made for him, and the tapes that his uncles and cousins make for him now. He doesn’t watch television — moving images bother him. But he does listen to the news over the radio. The newspaper is read to him — among the things he calls himself is the ‘ghar kaa samvaad-daataa’. He loves poems being read to him. Seeing Adit’s spirit, and how many of his poems Adit knew by heart, Ashok Chakradhar has gifted him many of his books, and even dedicated one to him. Every time you read the books, you have to begin at the very first page, not just the title page, but the very first, blank page — for on them Ashok Chakradhar has written many an endearment —‘Pyaare, ati pyaare Aditya ke liye . . .’ And if, while reading the poems, you pronounce even a syllable wrong, he hoots with joy, ‘Galti’. That was one of my father’s favourite games with Adit. He would deliberately make a little mistake, and Adit would catch him out — hoot, and laugh, beaming with triumph… He loves everyone. Everyone in the family loves him. His maternal grandmother, Malti Shukla, was his life. He is ours.

And that God just does not stop pounding this helpless, defenceless child…

ADIT COMES

…A premature child. Barely four pounds. In distress. Placed in an incubator. As they could not locate a vein in his tiny arms, the doctors had stuck needles through his scalp… A horrible sight for us… His sugar level is not stabilising, some nurse came and said to us. ‘Will you please sign these forms for a blood transfusion?’…

Three days went by. A Pakistani lady doctor used to visit Anita to check up on her. I am not supposed to tell you, she said, and I will lose my job if they come to know I have told you, but something has happened. Insufficient supply of oxygen in the incubator…

Anita came back to our home in Alexandria. Adit stayed on in the incubator. For an entire month. A horrible month.

“The child will finish your life as you have known it, may finish your life altogether,’ a senior at the World Bank said to me one day. He was a cheerful, warm-hearted person, but was speaking from first-hand knowledge as he had been bringing up a mentally handicapped son. ‘The doctors may well tell you, “We can do little more for the child.” And ask you, “Are you desperate that he lives?” When they do so, don’t let your emotions come in the way. Do you know what you will have to go on doing for the boy — not just now or for a few years but as long as the child lives?…’

That evening I reported the conversation to Anita and my mother-in-law. A person of iron-will, my mother-in-law said, ‘That is just not the case. Handicapped children live perfectly useful lives these days…’

Three months later we were advised to take the child to the head of paediatric neurology at the Georgetown University Hospital [in Washington]. We were exhausted, felled. The doctor was a kind, elderly gentleman. ‘I am going to use a word that you would have heard — it is used a lot these days to raise money. The word is cerebral palsy. It only means that the baby’s brain has suffered injury…’

We were too stunned to ask what exactly this was going to mean for our Adit’s future. I told the doctor, ‘We had planned to return to India. But if you feel that, for the sake of the child, we should stay on in Washington, of course we will. I will take back my resignation from the World Bank.’

‘I have not been to your country, young man,’ that kind doctor said. ‘If you are here, all that we will be able to do will be to tell you how your son is faring against the milestones. But as observant parents you will notice that yourselves…’

‘I have not been to your country, as I said,’ he continued. ‘But from what I have heard, you have strong, well-knit families there. That is what this child will need as he grows up — a net of love and security. So, if I were you, I would stick to your decision, return to your country, and bring him up in the embrace of your family.’

Among the wisest bits of advice we ever received.

We returned to India. We stayed with our parents. Soon, Anita’s mother came to stay with us…Adit became the centre of many lives.

THE SCHOOL

Adit was growing up. Shanti-amma, his maid, would sing to him, tell him stories, take him to the park. She was ever so possessive of him — always ticking off anyone who expressed the slightest doubt about Adit’s condition, or who uttered a word of pity or condescension. My mother-in-law would teach him — from news, to stories, to rhyming games, to poems, to arithmetic. ‘But why arithmetic, Mummy?’ I would remonstrate. ‘Why make him do sums? Why make him learn tables? He is never going to use them.’ ‘But just see his sense of achievement when he gets the answer right,’ she would teach me. ‘And he learns fast. He has excellent memory.’

….One day, as Anita was driving Adit and herself to school, a jeep coming in the opposite direction lost control. It rammed into Anita’s little Fiat. She and Adit were tossed inside the car. They were shaken, of course, but neither seemed to be badly hurt.

Soon after the accident, however, Anita began to feel peculiar sensations on her left side. We thought the problem was a ‘frozen shoulder’. But soon, the stiffness and pain developed into tremors… One doctor after another… Eventually she was diagnosed as having developed Parkinson’s disease. She was just about forty-two at the time — another one of those ‘one in ten million’ blows.

By now the tremors have spread to the right side also. Every time Anita does something with her hands — for instance, when she eats — her legs flail uncontrollably. That is dyskinesia, another one of those words with which our circumstances have enlarged our vocabulary. The symptoms became worse every winter. This winter — of 2009, in which I begin working on this book about Adit and her — Anita has fallen four times…

With my parents having passed away, with Maltiji also having gone, I am now the servant-in-chief, not just of Adit but of the two of them. The help of many friends and relatives sees us through the day. But more than anything, Anita’s strength and equanimity keep us afloat. ‘I had another toss today,’

I heard her tell her sister the other day, describing a fall so bad that we were lucky she had not fractured her skull. And so helpless and shocked was she that, while there was an alarm bell next to where she lay, she could not reach out to it. She now wears another alarm on her wrist… Even though this is her own condition, she manages the entire household; she husbands our savings; she runs everything so that every need of Adit is met — at once; and so that I am absolutely free to do my work.

‘We have to be thankful for an ordinary, boring, eventless day,’ Anita taught me long ago.

Her fortitude is a daily, ever-present example of another one of the lessons she taught me once: ‘You have to remember, there are many types of courage.’

My father’s courage as he evacuated Hindus in July-August 1947 out of Lahore — where he was City Magistrate at the time. The courage with which he settled, comforted and on occasion quelled the raging refugees in camps across Punjab. My mother’s courage as she comforted her mother and father when they lost a young son, as husbands deserted two of their daughters. My mother-in-law’s courage as she went on looking after all of us even as rheumatoid arthritis twisted and turned and crippled her hands and feet.

Malini’s courage, Veena’s courage evident in the dignity and fortitude with which they have borne blows of unimaginable severity, faced life, brought up their children single-handed, and, on top of it, continued working… Here we are: we get so puffed up just because we have stood up to some authority-of-the-moment. And here are these girls: they have stood up to life itself.

‘But I will never get over what God has done to Adit,’ Anita says. How true:Ghaayal ki gati ghaayal jaane Jauhar ki gati jauhar…

Copyright@Arun Shourie 2011

God is make-believe

Does he know his mother's heart, a book by arun shourieDoes He Know A Mother’s Heart?
Author: Arun Shourie
Publisher: Harper Collins
Imprints: Harper Colins
Edition: 2011
Language: English
ISBN-13:9789350290910
Book binding: Hardbound

It is one of the questions that assail every parent who has to bring up a handicapped child. Why do such horrible things happen? Why did this happen to this innocent child?’ We were  attending the Dalai Lama’s teachings. Time for questions. Arun Shourie got up and asked his question. The Dalai Lama, unaware of the root cause of the question, gave a generic answer — the doctrine of karma, that actions from previous lives determine what happens in your life today — that was disappointing to all who know Arun. Later, I told Arun, “Perhaps there are some questions to which there are no answers.” He smiled. His answer is this book.

Arun’s question stems from mindless clichés and platitudes any parent with a handicapped child is subjected to. You never get used to it. It is always repeated with a veneer of smug, good intentions. You live with a stone on your heart. Arun has used his tortured question to research and push sceptical inquiry into Christian, Muslim and Hindu texts to arrive at a functioning, action-based spirituality based on Buddhist philosophy. Buddhism requires no faith or belief in god. Its only requirement is that you practise, every moment of your life. Arun examines and questions religious texts that all have placed attributes to god who is full of revenge, egotism, mindless cruelty and pettiness. Yet, the majority of the world prays and relies on some form of ‘god’.

Arun quotes French philosopher Andre Comte-Sponville: “The belief in God is so strikingly congruent with our longings that it seems to be invented to fulfill them.” God did not create man. Man created god. No, this is not a new discovery since the scientific proof, or rather lack of it, has been investigated by thousands of philosophers ranging from Epicurus to contemporary writers such as Christopher Hitchens.

It is a given that each person deals with personal tragedy in his or her own way. So it is natural that Arun would deal with his through intellectual inquiry.  Arun’s understandable rage that one absorbs in every space between the words is turned into proving that god’s conversations, his orders, his revenge, his ego, his jealousy, his nonchalance of inflicted pain, his requirement of adulation, his expectation of gifts and sacrifice, his availability to make deals, expose the shallowness of the belief.

The lack of accountability — that god does not have to explain what he does since he ‘must have good reason’ — is something that mere mortals cannot perceive. Arun asks, “…alternatively, seeing everything, how does He still inflict such torment?” If god knows the future, Arun points out, then he would know that Pol Pot will exterminate a third of the population of Cambodia. Why did god then, when adding free will to humans, not add a little more intelligence so that Pol Pot or Hitler would not use that freedom to harm others? The old bogey, karma, which “‘is a convenient fiction’ thus, not just in explaining what has happened to an individual but also in getting God off the hook”.

Beyond inquiry, there are exercises for the reader to do and the book ends with a ‘path forward’. It concludes with startling humility: “I hope that no reader will think that I have learnt even a fraction of them [the lessons].”

Arun questions Gandhi’s views on Hitler’s extermination of Jews (‘They sinned.’ Little children? Gas chambers?) and the devastating 1934 earthquake in Bihar. Gandhi wrote that Bihar’s earthquake was god’s retribution for India’s failure to eradicate untouchability. “I believe that not a leaf moves but by His will,” he wrote. Clearly, this leaf — Does He Know A Mother’s Heart? — has moved on its own, by its own energy and by Arun Shourie. Alternatively, it means that Arun’s book, that objurgates a malevolent god, was moved by his will. Thank you, god.

Madhu Trehan is a Delhi-based journalist, Hindustan Times

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Book Review : In Whose Name Do We Suffer?

Does he know his mother's heart, a book by arun shourie

  • Author: Arun Shourie
  • Publisher: Harper Collins
  • Imprints: Harper Colins
  • Edition: 2011
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-13:

    9789350290910

  • Book binding: Hardbound

 

One of the most existentially defiant moments in literature is when Ivan, in The Brothers Karamazov, in an impassioned speech raises the question of the suffering of children. Nothing can justify that suffering, nothing can console it, nothing can compensate for it, nothing can restore a sense of order and purpose in the world in the face of a child’s suffering. There is no revenge, no justice and no redemption. What good can any theology do for children who are suffering? To pretend that there can be harmony or ethical order in the face of this suffering is to pile up falsehood, ignominy and perhaps worse. It is to deny the reality of suffering, render it invisible. Ivan then says, “I would rather remain with my unavenged suffering, and unsatisfied indignation, even if I were wrong. Besides, too high a price is asked for harmony; it is beyond our means to pay so much to enter it. And so I hasten to give back my entrance ticket, and if I am an honest man I am bound to give it back as soon as possible. And that I am doing. It’s not God that I don’t accept, Alyosha, only I most respectfully return His ticket.”

Arun Shourie’s personally wrenching, erudite and existentially blunt book is about as pointed a recreation of Ivan’s charge against religion as you can get. If there is a God, he can be described as nothing but a Sadist. How else can you describe someone who lets children go through extraordinary suffering? The difficult opening pages of the book, which describe in detail the plight of Shourie’s son, Aditya, who has cerebral palsy, say so clearly. The book then becomes, in part, a moving portrait of a family coping with this daily tragedy. But a large part of it is devoted to Shourie returning “His ticket”. Shourie is relentlessly and persuasively indignant, as Ivan was, that all religious truth comes at the price of denying the reality of suffering, in particular of children. He subjects religious texts of all traditions to the same relentless forensic skills he brings to the examination of government reports and court judgments. The depth and breadth of his engagement with a range of materials, from the Old Testament to the Gita, from psychology to a range of gurus, is astonishing. His method of interpretation is direct, no hiding behind allegories, metaphors, evasions. All the cant, all the denials, all the attempts to blame the victim, all the false promises of future recompense that religions offer are exposed, and found morally abhorrent. The result is a very powerful case for the prosecution. There is no explaining away a mother’s tears.

But despite this charge, this is in some ways a profoundly religious book. Eliot once said of Tennyson’s poetry that what made it religious was “not the quality of its faith but the quality of its doubt”. The book is not simply an intellectual claim: suffering refutes religion. It is not simply an exposé of the cant of priests and gurus about suffering. It expresses a deeper existential indignation that presupposes that there is someone to be indignant at. It is an indignation that often makes sense only against the backdrop of some claim that this is not all meaningless, of some claim that there is value that is not ephemeral. It is the depth of the doubt that grabs you.

Shourie’s book will generate so many conversations that will help overcome a culture of avoidance. We are supposedly a religious society; but we actually never debate religion: the quality of our faith makes us irreligious. There is a silence about so many forms of suffering; and perhaps this will open a conversation about how we cope with extraordinary and relentless suffering of children. Most of us cannot even imagine what it is like to be confronted with such situations.

But what makes the book moving is Shourie’s personal account. Despite a sense of unavenged cosmic indignation, the book is suffused with extraordinary tenderness and love. Reading about Shourie’s family coming together to participate in Aditya’s life; Aditya’s own struggle and receptivity; and the reservoirs of courage that are summoned in the face of great physical and emotional pain is a bracing experience. Love creates value. But there is still no resting place in the redemptive power of love. Aditya’s mother is afflicted with Parkinson’s.

Shourie is an extraordinary public figure. Reading this book, it is hard not to make comparisons with accounts of the inner life of another public figure: Charles de Gaulle. De Gaulle’s indomitable resolve is often attributed to his daughter Anne, who suffered from Down’s syndrome. She was the emotional centre of his life; he seemed to open up to her in ways he did to no one else. But just as Shourie draws strength and a deep joy from Aditya, de Gaulle described Anne as the joy who “helped me overcome the failures in all men and to look beyond them”. The character of the Shourie family comes through and through. But there is also the pathos of these two powerful men, for whom it is tragically humbling to come to terms with the idea that they cannot help the most important thing in their lives.

De Gaulle made the most tragically beautiful remark at Anne’s death, “Now she is like all the others.” Shourie’s account, perhaps with less poetry and more bluntness, touches on similarly deep questions; it puts who we are into question. He is open to the idea that people cope with this abyss in many different ways, and draw solace from many sources. There are tantalising accounts of encounters with a range of gurus from Sai Baba to Krishnamurthy. But what he will not stand is anything that will subsume the suffering of a child in a larger narrative. Shourie persuasively articulates the view that in the face of suffering you can either be with the victim or the torturer. If you provide consolation for suffering you side with the torturer and deny the reality the victim faces. Perhaps more than he recognises, God may be on Shourie’s side. After all, the only way in which God cannot appear as torturer is to suffer himself. This is why Christ suffers. This is why Krishna cannot answer Draupadi’s loss of her sons, and dies forlorn under a tree. There is no answering a mother’s cry. But this book still has the extraordinary courage to make most of life.

Pratap Bhanu Mehta
Indian Express